EQUAL RIGHTS IN EUROPEAN MARRIAGES

Everywhere in the world the woman is that who takes care 
of the members of the family and she gives birth to children,
to Life. 


I said that the Hindu Law Codes confirm that the woman/
wife must be the SERVANT OF HIS HUSBAND because
she must DEPEND OF HER HUSBAND'S WILL JUST
BECAUSE SHE IS NOT ALLOWED TO WORK AND 
TO BE INDEPENDENT, TO HAVE HER PROPERTY 
AND MONEY. IT MEANS THAT SHE IS SERVANT 
OF HER HUSBAND. 


In Europe we have equal rights with men and we don't 
depend on our parents or husband. 


Marriages are based on love, they are not arranged by 
parents. 


Women and men are free to choose everything they want 
for their life. The young girls graduate the University and 
have good jobs and salaries or incomes if they start their 
own business in their own companies. 


That's why I say that there is a great difference between 
the Indian Law of Codes and the European Laws about 
marriages. 


Of course, the young girls and men love each other very 
much when they decide to get married. When the parents 
influence and press their children to get married with a 
man/woman they like, the marriage is not a happy one and 
most of them divorce. 


Even if they divorce, the women never despair because 
they have their money and jobs in order to support them-
selves and the children, in case they have children with the
first husband.


The women always have much more responsibilities in our
life then men. 


The ATTITUDE OF A EUROPEAN WOMAN OR GIRL 
IS THAT OF FREEDOM AND MUCH CONFIDENCE 
IN THEIR RIGHTS TO WORK, TO GET MARRIED 
WITH THE MAN THEY CHOOSE FOR THEIR HEART 
AND MIND.


In Europe a woman can have more success than a man if 
she is educated in High Schools and Universities and 
have good jobs and money with which they buy their own 
houses and cars etc. 


In Europe the difference between men and women is that 
of EDUCATION . An educated and smart man or woman 
can have everything they need and dream. 


They choose their timeless partner and nobody is the 
servant of the other. All of us are equal and share our 
responsibilities in family. 


The young married couple never live together with their 
parents in the same house after marriage. They buy their 
own house and start a new life together without accepting 
any order from parents. 


It doesn't mean that they don't take care of their parents 
when they are old and weak. 


The old parents have a little freedom after their children's 
marriage when they don't work for their children anymore
and they have free time to have rest after more than 2o 
years of hard working for children. 


WOMAN WAS NOT MADE BY GOD ONLY TO SERVE 
HER HUSBAND AND CHILDREN . SHE ALSO NEEDS 
TO BE LOVED AND SERVED BY HER HUSBAND IN 
LIFE TIME TOGETHER.


SHE HAS EQUAL RIGHTS WITH MEN ANYTIME IN 
ALL THE DEMOCRATIC COUNTRIES.


Haminia,
June 2012