" Dear friend, you are a lovely man !
I haven't known that the men from Holland are such great supporters of the women ! I wish all the men be like you , great appreciating the intelligence of the girls, appreciation based on your knowledge that there are more girls at the Dutch universities than boys to which I add that there are more girls at the Romanian universities than boys.
They learn very good having a strong wish to make a very special career in life, not to depend on any man from the financial point of view or any other reason. These girls are very well educated by their parents who don't want that their daughters become a tool of the man, a humiliated woman in her family and society, a cooker and fabric of children while they are sure that they are very smart and they feel that they are able to work and bring important contribution to the good life of the Mankind !
You make me laugh . Yes, the men need a long period of emancipation, in my opinion ! From now on ! I know many men in my country and Europe who don't have confidence in themselves even if they graduate a College, even if they have an usual salary...amazing attracting "men" !
Making a little analysis of their life I can see that the young men as well as the mature ones are afraid of taking a decision about their future life in common with a woman for all their life !! Why ?
Usually in our modern society the men don't own their house, don't have economies in the banks for being able to assure the living life a family with children. They live together with their parents or in a rented room. The new men think that building a house is something impossible for them...why ? Our grand-grand parents built their own houses while being very poor in the country and they always thought very positive about the future and they succeeded in growing up children...we are their grand-grand children !
On the other hand the same society taught the men to spend a very free life with much time spent in discotheques, drugs and sex, without having any faith in God, the Creator and not knowing what is their mission as human beings on the Earth.
Unfortunately, the life for all the men is difficult, no matter the continent where they live because of their religion and traditions which oblige them to respect some rules that don't allow them to choose their woman as a wife ...she must be chosen by their parents.
The marriage is an arrangement of the parents for their "children" while the men wait very many years for what will be their future by dreaming and dreaming too long for a woman as a wife. The girls must be virgin and wait and dream the same very long time...from 5 to 15 years or more ...until they loose their confidence in life and become either violent with their life partner or depressed but never
heavenly happy ! In Love there must be always three : the woman, the man and God !!!
I don't give real examples because all the people will recognize their own problem of Love or lack of Love in my writing. I strongly believe in the gender Equality and in the true Love !
All we need is Love ! God's ! Nothing can be without Love !
Haminia, "
24.02.2011
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Thank you very much for your great answer ! We are completely agreed. What I meant is, that properly there has not to be a discussion between men and women about equality. That is an eveidence. But even in Europe men say that women have the same chances, but in practical way of life..... One of the fundaments of equality is financial independency. I always are very surprised when a woman says to me: " Of course I get a salary from my job and this salary goes on the account of my husband. Awful.. Wilma never worked after we got three children but in the beginning of the month automaticcaly she gets a great amount of my salary on her account. I do not know, what she is doing with the money. I suppose that she is richer than I am... During my lessons in Estonia especially at the Russian speaking gymnasium I always experience the inner feeling of supremacy of the boys..macho-behavior. I always say to the girls: "First learn a profession and make a career, before you marry." They marry too early as the girls did in Holland before the eighties. Now there are more girls at the Dutch universities than boys. Girls are doing better at the gymnasiums than boys. So girls are attacking "our" positions in Holland. Hurrha ! We need now an emancipation of the "man" !!!
Have a good weekend Harry.
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