Partha Baneriee :
Partik :"Big mama suffers the same way in Africa - guess anywhere outside North Europe and America."
Partha Baneriee :
"No, I'm not talking about that first class. I'm saying that Indian women, in spite of their talents, hard work and dreams, are very much undermined, and Indian men constantly take advantage of them. I've seen it all my life. Indian society -- urban in particular -- has changed on the surface with new malls and night clubs, but the change has not changed patriarchy at all. The stagnation is pathetic, and women are the victims."
Pree :
" Women anywhere in the world are... including USA. "
Partha Baneriee :
"But there is a qualitative difference. I'm not denying there's undermining and disempowering of women in the U.S. or other "developed" countries, but in the Indian subcontinent, it's pathetic, and it's culturally valid...ated. In India, of course, Kerala and Northeastern states are a little different; especially in Kerala, I heard that there's a matriarchal society, which, if true, is wonderful. In general, Indian women are truly subjugated, and Indian society is okay with it: some of it is explicit, violent and sickening; some others are subtle, and "progressive" places such as West Bengal are fine with it. I don't want to make it a theoretical discussion, because there are so many real-life examples."
Gargee :
"Partha, for once I think I agree with you! Most women in the subcontinent are far too 'tolerant' for their own good. Do you suppose insecurity has anything to do with it?"
Haminia :
"Dear Partha, why do you think that the Indian women are the second-class citizens and subjugated ? By their husbands, by the society or by who ? I know that the Indian women make many many children : from 4 to 10 and I wonder if they want t...o make so many or just their husbands want to make them so "busy" and not to work anything else.
Are they obliged to work only for their husbands in the house...to clean the house, to cook , to take care of the children and to make their husbands' desires ?
Why the intellectual Indian women don't work, don't practice their profession and stay at home ?
In Europe all the women are very happy to work for practicing their professions and also take care of the children together with their husbands after work . In the morning until evening the children are at the kindergarten or they are educated by their retired grandparents.
Are the Indian men selfish or jealouse on their women ? "
Edit : Haminia
Are they obliged to work only for their husbands in the house...to clean the house, to cook , to take care of the children and to make their husbands' desires ?
Why the intellectual Indian women don't work, don't practice their profession and stay at home ?
In Europe all the women are very happy to work for practicing their professions and also take care of the children together with their husbands after work . In the morning until evening the children are at the kindergarten or they are educated by their retired grandparents.
Are the Indian men selfish or jealouse on their women ? "
Edit : Haminia
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